As a woman, learning how to get a guy to like you is very hard. Just like men, women don’t have it that much easier. Men put more emphasis on appearance and some women are hotter (from a physical standpoint) than others, therefore if a woman makes herself more attractive physically, the man she’s after might like her, even if he didn’t like her before the appearance transformation.

I talked about this issue in one of previous articles(How to get a girl to like you)  about guys trying to make girls like them, and unfortunately when it comes to these kinds of situations, where you are looking for a quick fix- something that will instantly spark an interest in another person – this whole thing is more of a myth than reality.

Girls, I’m really sorry to break this illusion for you, it is merely the simple truth: you can’t really make a guy like you. Sure, it might happen from time to time, but that’s like 1% of the situations. So, the answer to the question of  “How to make a guy to like you?” is simply: “You don’t”.

     But …

Although you can’t do much about this problem, there are couple of things that you can do in order to spark an interest, but that doesn’t mean he will like you. If you want to get the attention of a guy, you have to do whatever you can in order to look your best. Dress in a way that you know he likes and make yourself visible to him. If he glances over and sees you, and his face freezes for a second while his eyes remain on you, and if his mouth slightly opens, you know you got him. If not, well, maybe you are not what he is looking for and you should look for somebody else.

You can also work more on your inner female side. Work more on your heart and how much you are able to project love outwards. You must have that light in your eyes. You have to express love and aliveness through your body, through your eyes, through your voice, through everything. Again, this is not something that will give you results on a short period. The fruit of making yourself more attractive, and making your inner woman express herself more freely, will show itself after months of practice, sometimes years.

A lot of teenage girls are asking on forums “how to get a boy to like you?” or “how to make a boy like you?” but they never ask “what should I in order to like myself more, to feel more beautiful?”, because that is how you actually attract a worthy man, where you don’t even care whether he likes you or not: you just know he likes you, you have that powerful, feminine inner confidence that literally screams out through your gestures, through your body posture, through your voice and everything else you express that “all men love you”.

It’s like whenever you interact with a man, you express through everything you do the following: “It’s impossible for you to resist me”. To get to this place where you actually stop faking that you are ‘a diva’, like most women do, and to actually do the work to become a diva: you work out, you improve your personality, you read, you take dance lessons, communication lesson, and all sorts of things that you need to do that actually make you feel like ‘a diva’, you will not be able to attract the man that you want. Most women have the wrong impression that they were born these wonderful creatures and  they need to do nothing for getting anything in life, except to trade sex and to use manipulative techniques to get where they want.

Of course, that works on the short run, but in doing so you don’t actually get a guy to like you for who you are, you are merely pressing his sexual buttons in order to attract him. To know how to get a guy to like you, you must stop pursuing to get a reaction from him, and instead, try to work on yourself, not just physically but mentally and spiritually as well,  in order to make yourself more attractive to all men, not just this guy.

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